Hot chocolate for celebration, writing for catharsis by Roktotpal

Temperature seems to have dropped down without a Facebook update. The rustling of the Maple leaves against the cold wind is reminding me of those not-so-often-vehicle-transacted peaceful Pine-alleys of Shillong.  It is Thursday evening.  I have grabbed a cup of hot chocolate and a Cranberry Blueberry Bran (muffin) from the Tim Horton’s outlet (a quick service restaurant chain in Canada specializing in some awesome coffee, baked goods and home-style lunches) at the University Centre. On checking my FB account, I find myself getting tagged by my friends back in India on nearly a dozen of Durga Puja images.  So, the autumn is on full swing. This is my third week as a visiting researcher (Canadian Commonwealth Scholarship under Foreign Affairs and International Trade Canada –DFAIT program) in the University of Guelph. And, I am starting to miss my home. Basically, I am celebrating my Durga Puja with a cup of hot chocolate. Not bad at all.

I am supposed to cross the road. Out here, the management of the traffic on the immaculate roads with well demarcated paths for the cyclists and the motored vehicles has really impressed me. Here, the pedestrians are given the first preference to cross and the wheeled transports stop (whatsoever speed they may be on) to let the pedestrians go. Boys and girls do take the chance to exchange a ‘big’ (pun intended) hug when the red traffic signal is on.

There goes some Mrs. X with her Greyhound for an evening stroll. I send her a smile. She turns towards me. “So! Big boy, having hot chocolate! Have a great time…” I am overwhelmed by the unique bond these people share with their pets. They are also trying their level best to ‘go green’ and manage waste.

People know the manners of standing in queues, without the hullabaloos and push and pull, so explicitly exhibited in India. I have my University monthly bus pass of CAN $ 60, which permits me to travel as many times as I wish to in the city. I am in the bus now. I am sitting in the middle of a 20-22 year old Asian girl and a hunky African guy- both busy on their iPoDs. I am once again busy with my FB account. So, it’s ‘Bijay Dashmi’ today. Kim aunty (my apartment owner) told me about Durga Puja celebration in Toronto, about an hour drive from my place. Huge affairs! Great celebrations! It’s the Bong connection! I could not make a single minute to visit the pandal and have the devi-darshan (receive blessings) all these days. And, today I am repenting. Whatever!!

 Aunty is a caring Bengali lady, staying in Canada for almost three decades. Son works in Toronto. Daughter is going on some student exchange program to some Asian country this November. Kim aunty is a widow. She is a working lady. She works in Subway. She toils day in and day out to keep her small world geared up. I am supposed to dine with her tonight. I have got down from the bus and heading towards the small market standing at the road-crossing. I am buying a small wall-hanging- a mother pushing a loaded shopping cart home and her daughter holding onto a balloon string– for aunty.

Hey! Who is calling? “O! Ma! I am good. Happy puja!” ….”Yup! I’m having food in time”…. “And, I’m also keeping myself warm! You need not worry. Hope deuta (father) and dada (elder brother) -both are good!! “After reassuring about my well-being, I have taken my home-way route.

So, people out there are finally bidding adieu to the Goddess today- the final day of Durga Puja. I am missing the fun of Bhasan (immersion of the idol) people dancing to the song, ‘Are you Ready, Nakabanddi’ that has gained the status of ‘isme nahi nacha toh kya nacha!’ (if you have not danced to this, your dance means nothing) over the years. I am missing the throwing and bursting of water-balloons onto some unknown person on the river banks and mass participation in the final idol-immersion in the Brahmaputra. But more than that, my feet, my eyes- they are becoming heavy. Am I going to cry? How can I? A few minutes ago, Mrs. X had said that I am a big boy.

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I am lost. I am leaving my village. I am leaving my catapult. I am leaving my white copy white. I am leaving my borokhi (fishing rod). I am leaving the magic of bhaona (dance-dramas) of the Namghar (prayer house). I am far from togor and xewali (flowers, known for their fragrance). Far from the husori (inseparable part of Rongali Bihu)! I am in black. I am leaving my father’s love and spectacled watch over me… I am entering into those tropical jungles- in the dark night.

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I am the ‘thousand sons’ who had said a silent goodbye to ‘my mothers’ ages ago.

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Dear Ma,

I am writing to you because I love you. And Ma, I know you still wait for me in the evenings. I am sorry for I could come neither in Bihu nor in Puja. Nevertheless, we have Holi almost every alternate day. It is 5 or 6 in the morning now. I miss the wood stove and the morning smoke when you use to prepare the zinger-flavoured black tea.

Ma. Do not cry. Your son won’t go unread in tomorrow’s history.

I want to bring the change. I am the one preaching for the liberation. I am the leader. You know- I am ‘the leader’. I do not like insubordination, collapse, disintegration, disorder and desertion in my group. I have to be with ‘my people’ in the forests all the time. They are my people now. I cannot return back – to the main-stream.

Your son is a good leader. I do not know much about the world outside or the white-clad masked marauders – always preaching for across-the-table talks. Their strategy is never a direct bite, it’s always bait. Whatever they are, they are cunning. Their children grow in some hybrid sanctuary. And, we live on fish bones thrown at us. They have different dictions of poverty and freedom. Poor, never to be free!

I can see my brothers’ skins hung on the portico of their bungalows. They stretch out like trampled flowers hanging on tensed lines. I shot those shooters yesterday.

Today, I need to cleanse myself. Sweat, soil, the gun powder and the red fluid- stain me.  This evening, I am to plunge into the Brahmaputra. Do come to meet me. I have some real muscles now. I need to show them to you. Do not laugh at that!!

Ma. You know I often feel chocked. Sometimes, some bada-sahib (big boss) comes deep into the forests with some red bottles (branded liquor). Our throats get real dry. It’s getting cold as well. Please bring some Xazpani (rice beer prepared by Ahom community) and pour over me. You will na, Ma?

I will then sleep for some time.

 

Yours’ leader-son

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Boss, you have a text message!!’- beeps my mobile. Dipankar’s SMS. “Hy bro! Wtzup? Bhasan ws rockin’. M comin’ 4rm d’ river-banks. Finally bid bye 2 Ma Durga. Puja-khatam. U tk cre.”

Hmm… What is writing if not catharsis – the emotional cleansing of the tears and other fluids, of someone’s absence, of acute recall of million jarring traumas?

Hey guys! I hope it’s OK. I am good (pals- and self-proclaimed) at preparing pork dry-fry but writing for Fried Eye – Holy ****!!

 

 

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28 Comments

28 Comments
  1. mibo m doley

    Flow from ur heart,reaching ours. Lovely.

  2. A. Oneiros

    Articulate. Very.

  3. Dhritiman Talukdar

    its fast, coz it had to be small…
    but u are successful in capturing the storm inside u; putting it in a bottle and displaying it to us…

  4. samrat tamuly

    leader son u wl chnge the world so wl i…dnot worry we wnt go unsung ….its time for d rst to bow…leader son its time to rise n make northeast a better place …leader son tke care u r a thousands miles away n we really thnk of u…leader son u inspire kip inspiring…
    urs leader bro

    • Rocktotpal Konwarh

      Sam!! The world relies on you.. on me .. on us…
      When the best leader’s work is done the people say, “We did it ourselves.”
      Lao Tzu

  5. Parag

    hey man.. after reading this I am speech less. I donno what to say.. how to react. But I luved it. Who is Chetan Bhagwat , your writing is far bettr then the famous Chetan. I have read all the books of him, he was my fav writer but now its u man. really plz dont stop writing. go on and on keep writing. My best wishes are always with u.. keep rocking, keep writing, take care.

  6. HiRock

    Superb way to clean your emotions. Your writing style enthralled me, like the emotions are coming out spontaneously. God bless you,my bro!

  7. HiRock

    Superb way to clean your emotions. Your writing style enthralled me, like the emotions are coming out spontaneously. God bless you bro!

  8. Arkaditya Verma

    Awesome feelings present in the writings bro….

  9. Debasis Bhuyan

    Hey ,ur words really made me cry bcoz a string of our life is attach with me..our moments ,our fight our plays of table tennis ,and ofcourse bhasan when u comes to my house because Demi had got her Birthday n u enjoyed my Ma hand made flavour ..All the memories I curve beside our friendship still haunts and always haunts me …Love Bony Miss u bro.Bck soon

  10. Leeton Basak

    hey bro……..I dint know that you are such a good writer. you have written a good and nostalgic diary which tells us that you are quite happy to see the manners and disciplines strictly followed by the Canadian people in Canada to maintain the peace and brotherhood. which directly means that you are happy in Canada.but somewhere you are missing your country India and your motherland Assam also.Its natural yaar… coz nothing can replace and no country can come into the place of our India.coz its incredible India…you can not find India like country anywhere in the world. It has a great diversity..At the same time you are missing your maa( hey bro, next time wen u will write the word ma then plz write it as maa) and your family.dont get upset yaar….be a man.understand? We miss you too bro….. Anyway what you have written…simply awesome. the way you have written, the expression you have given can be touch anyones heart easily. your piece of writing reflects that how much you love your country and family especially maa. dont worry bro..keep on writing.. nothing to worry yaar coz we are always be there.with you.

    bye take care.

  11. Subhankar Sharma Pathak

    I like the fact that your writing style is so polished… Do send me some more of your articles for me to read….

  12. kaushik hazarika

    superlykkk…nice work..keep doing.

  13. Raja

    only one word its awesome

  14. Nivedita Saikia

    Lovely piece of writing !! superlyk 🙂

  15. Lovely rox. :)… Had a pleasant and calming sense to it.. :).. Lovely.

  16. Tarun Kumari

    Just superb bro…..Luved it..!!!

  17. Mrinmoyee Datta

    Its awesome….. filled with nostalgia..
    keep writing, u really write well.

  18. Kaushik Chakraborty

    Really nice piece of writing..and according to me the most interesting aspect is the lucidity with which you presented the situations and related them……….////hats off!!!!!!

  19. uttam kr barthakur(UB)

    hw beautiful ur thoughts r…n hw amazingly n so fluently u hav written….reading the lines i was actually feeling as if u were in frnt of me n speaking to me….So it goes to show ur lines r easily connected to the readers….proud of u bro…hope i cld write like u, even 1% of wht u hav written, it wld b an achievement fr me…

  20. Pinku Boruah

    Bahut bhal hoise…….agoloi aru pohiboloi paam buli axa rakhilu…..tc

  21. Prayag

    Bohut dhunia likhiso…….moi delhit thaki ghor imaan miss koru…toi tu beleg dekh…..nijor ghor nisina kotu eku nai…i miss Dibrugarh too…tc…

  22. Angshuman Deka

    awesome work roxxx.:)

  23. Parikhit Bhuyan

    too heavy 🙂 but honestly very nice….

  24. Tridip Ranjan Chetia

    UmmmUaaaaaah…………. love it………..like it……

  25. Rituparna Deka

    really awsum piece of writing… cn b well related 2 any one staying far away from home n trying to make bonds wd strangers in a cmpltely alienic place n d feeling of absence of near n dear ones… kip it up!!!

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